Enough
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PoemPOETIC DEVICES
Alliteration Assonance Feelings Imagery Metaphor Personification Repetition Rhyme Rhythm Word PlayEnough by Michelle Nathan
Before I travelled to Sri Lanka
for the very first time
My cousin told me that
the most important word
I could learn in Tamil,
is Kaarnum –
Enough.
And I didn’t understand why
until I got there
There
where each meal is so distinct
but also seem to slowly meld together –
as one ends
the preparation for the next begins
There
where they pile the plates so high
the food could almost touch the sky
There
where the edible leaning tower before me
threatens to spill over the sides and floor me,
I somehow find the strength to say
‘Thank you,
Jaya Auntie,
Kamala Marmee,
but please, it’s enough!
Kaarnum
Bas.’
She does not even hesitate,
but simply continues to spoon
even more food
onto my plate
Unwavering in her mission
It’s a condition that all aunties suffer from –
they feel the need
the need to feed
I even cover up my dish with one hand
form a line of defence with my palm and fingertips –
she will never get through this elaborate barrier
I think to myself
But little did I know,
she is not afraid to pour hot sambar –
spicy, soupy
liquid gold
directly onto my skin
So at least that way
some of it can
still soak in
These daily feasts are feats of near perfection
that I have never even tried to replicate
Because feeding a family isn’t easy,
by any means
Hours over an open fire stove
no microwave or Uber Eats to lessen the load
And we’re living in a patriarchy
Naturally
so the women will wait hand and foot on the men
while they barely lift a finger
unless specifically asked
and sometimes, not even then
But I think that my Kamala Marmee
is happy, at least
She is more
joyful
than most people I know
Her laugh is a song that I would play on repeat
if I could
There’s no real melody
but as she cackles and whoops
the sound fills my heart with so much joy
it could literally burst
And she is
selfless
to a degree
that I find hard to conceive
When I give her a gift
that my sister has sent to her
from across the seas
she hides it in a cupboard
for a rainy day –
or more likely
to give away to someone else
who’s more in need
She is everything I wish I could be
a teacher
a mother
the most compassionate of caregivers
We stayed with her
in Vavuniya
for only four days
In a near constant
sleepy, satiated haze
There
where we were trapped in language barriers,
but not when it came to food
because cooking my favourite dishes was how she said
‘I love you’
every day
without fail
and that needed no further translation
Because even though it is dripping in syrup
the payasum is never too sweet
Make no mistake
it will give you cavities
and maybe a sugar induced stomach ache
but that’s only for the weak –
because in my heart
it’s never too sweet to eat
And the curries are never too spicy
Even when there are hot tears trailing streaks down my cheeks
and my nose threatens to run off and away
with the dish and the spoon –
they are never too spicy to try
And even when my Aunty
Marmee
asks me
finally
‘Kaarnum'?
Enough?
My response to her
is a resounding –
‘No’
Because even when I’m so full
that I resemble the moon
hanging low and heavy in that rusty red sky
Or a full, ripe mango
that could roll down the street
and pop like a balloon
I will never
ever
have had enough
of you
© Michelle Nathan, from SLAM! You’re Gonna Wanna Hear This, chosen by Nikita Gill, Macmillan, 2020